rainbow babies <3…..things i'm thankful for thursday

thank god for rainbow babies ❤

today i could not be more thankful for the birth last night of a beautiful, healthy, baby boy to my dear friend jenny & her husband kevin. baby jack is a rainbow baby.

what is a rainbow baby??

Rainbow babies: In some circles, babies born to families after the loss of a child are referred to as “Rainbow Babies.” The idea is that the baby is like a rainbow after a storm. “Rainbow Babies” is the understanding that the beauty of a rainbow does not negate the ravages of the storm. When a rainbow appears, it doesn’t mean the storm never happened or that the family is not still dealing with its aftermath. What it means is that something beautiful and full of light has appeared in the midst of the darkness and clouds. Storm clouds may still hover but the rainbow provides a counterbalance of color, energy and hope.

i found this poem below, and wanted to share. no words i could put down would explain what this means better than the poem itself.

A Different Child

A different child, people notice
There’s a special glow around you.
You grow surrounded by love
Never doubting you are wanted;
Only look at the pride and joy
In your mother and father’s eyes.
And if sometimes between the smiles
There’s a trace of tears,
One day you’ll understand.
You’ll understand there was once another child.
A different child.
Who was in their hopes and dreams.
That child will never outgrow the baby clothes.
That child will never keep them up at night.
In fact, that child will never be any trouble at all…
Except sometimes, in a silent moment,
When mother and father miss so much
That different child.
May hope and love wrap you warmly
And may you learn the lesson forever:
How infinitely precious,
How infinitely fragile is this life on earth.
One day, as a young man or woman
You may see another mother’s tears
Another father’s silent grief
Then you, and you alone will understand
And offer the greatest comfort.
When all hope seems lost
you will tell them with great compassion:

“I know how you feel. I’m only here because my parents tried again.”

~ Author Unknown

dedicated to the memory of finn michael edward murphy, january 10, 2011, RIP sweet baby boy. ❤

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One Response to rainbow babies <3…..things i'm thankful for thursday

  1. Kari says:

    Thank you, Traci. You have no idea how much this touched my heart.

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